Another year has arrived, and regardless of age, it's a
good time to make -- or renew -- resolutions. This is a great opportunity for you to sit
with your children, evaluate their lives, and discuss the importance of morals and values.
As they grow, children become capable of increased emotional challenges and choices. This
can be a training ground for future experiences.
Additionally, children begin to develop spiritual questions. The new year is a good
time to field your growing child's questions about God. This also gives you the chance to
introduce the issue of God's role in health and healing. Once children are able to
understand the concept of a higher power, they can also begin to understand innate
intelligence. This can lead into a discussion about health and healing coming from within
(above-down-inside-out), as opposed to outside-in sources. You may want to discuss with
your children the resolution to get their weekly chiropractic adjustment.
The new year is an opportune time for you as parents to make resolutions also, to set
positive goals for yourselves related to spending more quality time with your children.
Maybe you'll resolve to read to them every night before bed, attend all of their sporting
competitions, or take a family vacation.
While it may be impossible to hold true to all of these resolutions throughout the
year, this is an appropriate time to reflect. Take a look at what you are doing now, and
consider what -- if anything -- can be done better as the year progresses.
For parents and children alike, the need to evaluate morals, values, and even daily
habits, is a project that should be done at least once a year. Setting new year's
resolutions with your children can become a great learning experience for both of you. It
is an occasion to reflect on the past, review what you've taught them, and explore new
issues. This can become a fun family tradition that will help shape your children's
personalities today, and their futures tomorrow.
(Dr. Theresa Warner, a member of the post graduate faculty at Life University, is in
private practice in Point Pleasant, N.J., with her husband, Dr. Stuart Warner. Half of
their practice is devoted to children under the age of seven. Founders of Future Perfect,
Inc., a premier chiropractic pediatric product and education company, and "Kids Day
America/International," the Warners are sought-after speakers on chiropractic
pediatrics. Comments or questions about issues raised in this column or regarding
children's wellness and chiropractic in general may be directed to Dr. Theresa Warner by
phone [732-295-5437], fax [732-295-1166] or mail [3201 Bridge Ave., Suite 2, Point
Pleasant, NJ 08742-3468.])