Rest is part of the cycle of life. The body needs time to repair itself
and recoup energy. During your rest cycle, your energies are "turned
inward" to allow cells to regenerate and your body to gather debris
for elimination. Therefore, proper rest is vital to health.
So, what is proper rest? It is a state of complete relaxation, a state
many of my patients haven't experienced in a long time. They think
they rest, but they don't. They tell me, "I sleep 10 or 11 hours a
night and I wake up just as tired as I was when I went to bed. How can
this be?"
Well, thoughts and attitudes get in the way of healthful, restorative
rest. These patients are as tense when they sleep as they are when they're
awake. That's sleeping, not resting.
Your body can't rebuild and repair when you crawl into bed at night
exhausted, then lie there and re-live all of the frustrations, hurts,
injustices, indignities, and general negativities of the day and the past.
When disturbing anxiety-provoking thoughts run rampant through your
conscious mind as you finally fall asleep, you program patterns into your
subconscious mind that dictate defense physiology. Falling asleep while
you're in defense physiology "saves" that physiology on your
mental "hard drive." You won't even need to think directly about
the original thought to bring it up again.
All it takes to call up the whole defense physiology pattern again is
to meander into a nearby thought neighborhood. Get close to the original
thought with an associated thought in your mental musings and you hit the
"restore" command for the original thought physiology: defend.
You're designed to survive conscious physical threats. Responding to
subconscious memory threats is physiology abuse.
To solve the restless sleep problem, make conscious choices. When you
go to bed, exercise your freedom of choice over your thoughts and refuse
to allow negativity to creep into your consciousness. Always finish your
day with positive thought. To help you keep negativity at bay at bedtime,
don't watch the late night news on TV. That's nothing but negativity. If
you must rehash the day's events, find favorable or positive aspects to
think about.
Once you get to sleep, how much sleep is enough? This varies with each
individual. Some of us require eight or nine hours each night. Others are
ready to bounce out of bed and greet the world with only five or six hours
of pillow time.
One way to find out how much sleep you need is to not set an alarm to
wake you. When you allow yourself to wake naturally, your body reaches its
own level of sleep-need. If you need an alarm to wake you in order to get
to work on time, go to bed earlier. You were designed to go to sleep
naturally for regular periods of relaxing, restful sleep and to awaken
feeling refreshed. You weren't designed to need a pill to go to sleep, an
alarm clock to wake up, and another pill to face the day.
If you usually wake up tired and draggy, try this rest-inducing
exercise for a week. When you go to bed at night, concentrate on thinking
positive thoughts. Focus on a positive aspect of each experience of the
day, and on what you learned from each experience. Even if an experience
appeared to be negative, find something positive about it.
Concentrate on that positive. When you concentrate on positive thoughts
and feeling, your conscious mind feeds "no-threat" signals to
your subconscious mind and your body responds with relaxation. Very likely
you will be surprised at how much better you feel not only when you get up
in the morning but also throughout the day.
The essential area of rest is so important because during restful
sleep, your body repairs and maintains itself. Internal
"housekeeping," such as healing processes and preparing debris
for elimination, takes place during restful sleep. Insufficient or
ineffective rest interferes with these processes, and interference leads
to exhaustion and paves the way for pain, symptoms, and disease.
Regular restful sleep is a boon to performance of body, mind, and daily
tasks.
A well-rounded life of rest and work provides positive stimulation to
body and mind. Paying attention to the essential choice of
"rest" is vital to health, happiness, and success.
(Dr. M.T. Morter, Jr. is the founder of the revolutionary Morter
HealthSystem, based on his Bio Energetic Synchronization Technique (B.E.S.T.).
For information on B.E.S.T. seminars offered all over the country in 2002,
call 800-874-1478 or visit the Morter HealthSystem website at
www.morter.com.)