"Webster's Ninth New Collegiate Dictionary" defines judgment
as "the process of forming an opinion or evaluation by discerning and
comparing." However, health-deterring judgment is more than an
evaluation and comparison. Judgment imposes your personal standards and
beliefs on others.
Most (but not all) judgment is negative. Judgment, like indecisiveness,
is made up of "shoulds" and "shouldn'ts," "oughts"
and "ought not to's" (as in "John should keep his grass
cut" ... "Mary shouldn't spend so much time on the phone"
... "The company ought to provide better benefits" ...etc.).
From politics to parenting, from appearances to actions, judgment by an
onlooker or outsider is futile and frustrating.
Judgments, such as, "The government should keep its nose out of
[fill in the blank]"... or "That mother should discipline her
child" have no effect on those judged. Judgment merely fosters
anxiety and fields interference in the self-appointed judge.
Despite the dictionary description of judgment as a process of
evaluation, from a health standpoint, judgment and evaluation are not
synonymous.
The process of evaluation poses no threat to the body. Evaluating the
pros and cons of a situation in an effort to make an informed decision is
based on determining which of two or more courses of action has the
greatest potential for the most beneficial outcome. An element of control
over the outcome distinguishes evaluation from judgment.
Evaluations look for the best resolution to achieve a future condition.
Judgment deals with conditions of the present or past. For example,
investment possibilities can be evaluated to determine those with the
greatest potential for the greatest yield in the future. That's
evaluation. Judgment is made after you've bought a stock and see whether
or not your evaluation and decision were wise.
Evaluation is a rational function of your mind, tinged with beliefs
and, perhaps, a whisper of emotional personal preference. Judgment is
emotional. Emotions can (and usually do) stimulate and sustain
inappropriate defense physiology. That's what makes judgment hazardous to
your health. The judgment itself isn't the problem. It's the effect it has
on your body (and relationships) that's the problem.
Keep in mind that nothing is good or bad, right or wrong, until you
judge it so, and then it is merely your perception. That's all that
judgment really is -- one's perception of a given event, person, action,
or thing.
One of the greatest ironies of judgment is that, when we are judging we
think we are performing positive thinking because we are sure that our
judgment is right. However, I believe the mere act of judging is a
negative one.
To judge is to rate something using your opinion as the scale. Although
your opinion is sometimes based on certain theologies, philosophies, or
doctrines that have been handed down for generations, that doesn't change
the basis for your judgment, which remains your opinion. It also doesn't
matter that your opinion may be one that is held by others, perhaps many
others. We judge when we want others to learn our lessons.
I believe that humans have been given the power to think freely and
that we often abuse this privilege by performing such acts as judgment
with our minds. You cause a conflict, balance, or blockage when you use
your free will to perform acts of judgment, hatred, and the like. This
conflict within you will manifest itself in illness and, as I have said
before, the illness, condition, or disease will vary from person to
person. However, it is certain that some form of ill health will be
created.
There is an immense and calming freedom that comes with loving
unconditionally and letting go of judgment. When you learn to love
unconditionally you will no longer feel the need to judge others or their
actions. You will no longer feel the pangs of jealousy or the fires of
hatred burning within you. You won't be chained to fear or lost in
loneliness. It is a difficult trait to overcome, a hard habit to break if
it has become commonplace in one's life.
Yet, when a higher level of consciousness is attained, when you become
in tune in soul and spirit, then the need or urge to judge dissipates. It
becomes no longer necessary. It will no more be part of your life or your
way of thinking. Once you can unconditionally love others and the world
around you, you are freed of all those negative feelings and of the stress
they cause your body.
(Dr. M.T. Morter, Jr. is the founder of the revolutionary Morter
HealthSystem, based on his Bio Energetic Synchronization Technique --
B.E.S.T. For information on B.E.S.T. seminars offered all over the country
in 2003, call 800/874-1478, or visit the Morter HealthSystem website at
www.morter.com.)