May 2003
Answering patients' questions
by Dr. David Singer
One of the least talked
about, yet most important aspects concerning managing patients, is how you
answer their questions. When patients ask a question, they remember your
answer far longer (and better) than if you said the same thing without them
asking about it first.
Remember those lectures
in school where the teacher lectured and you remembered about 10% of what
was said? Yet, if you stayed awake long enough to ask a specific question,
you probably remembered the answer to that question far longer than just
hearing the answer in a lecture.
Two common questions
asked by patients (followed by the best ways to answer them) are:
Question #1: "How
long will it take?"
This is a trick question
because quite often the patient actually means, "How long will it
take for my pain to go away?"
Most chiropractors, when
asked this question, hesitate and respond, "Well, it will only take a few
weeks to get rid of your pain; however, if you want to get rid of the cause
of the problem, that will take longer." Since most patients only remember
the idea that it will take a few weeks to get rid of the pain, many
often drop out of care before true correction has taken place.
A more effective answer
would be: "There are two types of care, relief care and corrective care.
Relief care takes less time, but the results are less permanent. Corrective
care, on the other hand, is an extension of relief care, meaning that once
your pain is gone, care is extended with the goal of getting rid of the
cause of the problem. This type of care takes longer. I will be explaining
to you the difference between relief and corrective care, and once you
understand the difference between the two programs, you can pick for
yourself the type of care that you want."
When patients ask
questions, it's very important to make them feel they have control over the
circumstances. Always give them the power to choose! By allowing them to
have the freedom of choice, it takes the question off your shoulders and
places it back on the shoulders of your patients.
"How long will it take?"
It's up to you. You'll make your own decision." This type of response does
not stick the doctor with an answer he or she will feel bound to comply
with.
Another effective
response to this question of how long it will take would be: "Only two
doctors move the bones in the body -- dentists and chiropractors. For a
dentist to move the bones in a person's mouth, (i.e., their teeth) it
normally takes a minimum of three years. It also would require having them
braced in the new position. In chiropractic, we try to change the structure
of a person in a much shorter time without any braces.
"Initially, the first
phase of care is an intensive program that extends over a period of several
months. At the end of this intensive program, you would be re‑examined to
determine the extent of correction. At the end of the first several months
of care (two, three, four, depending on the doctor's decision), you will be
informed as to the amount of correction that has taken place.
"Since the intensive
phase takes place in the first several months, we expect to have the major
changes take place in that time. However, a program of care, perhaps once a
month or once every two months -- or once a week depending on how you
respond -- might be recommended at that point, to allow us to bring your
spine to a complete correction, and to bring your health to its fullest
potential." (Note: It is not my intention to suggest the length of care
you recommend for your patients, but simply to illustrate how you word your
answers can affect the patients understanding.)
There can be a tendency
on the part of all doctors to try to cut patients' questions short when
they're not sure of their own answer. But remember, unless you completely
satisfy patients regarding their concerns about their health care, in all
probability they will disappear without you knowing what happened -- because
you failed to completely answer their questions.
Question #2: "Why
am I going to need such a long program of care when the pain only started
recently?"
Most doctors fall into a
trap with this question. They say something like: "The reason we're going to
need to see you for so long is that the problem you have was the straw that
broke the camel's back. Even though your symptoms appeared only recently,
the cause of the problem has been there for a long time."
This answer, although
accurate and true, may not completely create an understanding in the
patient, due to the failure of the doctor to give a sufficient analogy or
options.
A better answer might
be: "The reason that we are recommending an extensive program of correction
is because we feel that the ideal care, or the highest quality of care is
one which has as its goal eliminating the cause of the problem. You
certainly have options, and they are to receive either relief care only, or
corrective care which will fully correct the problem.
"There are several
stages or conditions your body goes through. They range from being totally
well to having symptoms of illness or injury. The first stage is the loss of
normal body function. The second stage is degeneration and tissue damage.
The third stage is symptomatology. Relief care has as its target to get rid
of the third stage, which is simply the symptoms.
"Corrective care has the
goal of correcting the loss of function. It is similar to the oil light
going on in your car. There are several ways to get rid of that red light
that's blinking. One way would be to take a hammer and break the light so it
no longer blinks. The other way would be to put oil in the car and correct
the cause of the problem. Breaking the light is quicker and less expensive
than adding oil.
"It would be the same
thing with your body. If we were to just treat you until your symptoms went
away, it would be analogous to allowing you to try to run your engine
without any oil. You know as well as I do that this certainly would lead to
future problems that could be extremely costly."
You want your patients
to ask questions. Because when they do, this indicates they are thinking.
How you answer those questions has a lot to do with how much that patient
complies with your recommendations.
(Dr. David Singer is
the CEO of David Singer Enterprises -- www.davidsingerenterprises.com -- a
company offering an honest and ethical approach to building a practice
through one‑on‑one consulting programs, products and practice expansion
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issues mentioned in this column, among others. For information on workshops
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