November 2003
Children and chiropractic
by Dr. David Singer
Would you like to treat
more of the children in your community and have them benefit from
chiropractic? Many doctors I present this question to respond with some
hesitation. Yes, of course we would all like to see more children benefit
from the care we offer. But some colleagues have expressed some uneasiness
in treating children.
Even if you are not
aiming for a pediatric practice where you specialize in treating children,
you should at least be comfortable with promoting to and treating children.
Let's take a look at
this subject, but not from a clinical point of view.
Most of us know how to
adjust a child. Yet, there's another contributing factor, which causes some
doctors to hesitate in reaching out to the children of their communities.
First, how do you promote your services to a child? The answer is, you
don't. You promote to the parent(s). There are many ways to do this, which I
will tell you about, but there is something even more basic that needs to be
addressed which, in my opinion, is why some chiropractors are uneasy
treating children.
What generally happens
when you walk into a treatment room to a waiting child? The child's parent
is there. You begin communicating to the parent. Why? Because you know
how to communicate to the parent. The child is your
patient, but it's easier to talk to the parent! The parent understands what
you're doing, or else the child would not be there for an adjustment. So,
how do you communicate to the child?
When you enter the room
to treat a child, you should first address the child. Acknowledge the
parent, of course, but first address the child. Even if that child is three
months old. Children are remarkably perceptive. Most are not acknowledged
for their presence, especially by doctors in a treatment room. The parent
does all the talking for them, tells the doctor what he or she feels is
wrong and answers all the doctor's questions.
How would you like to
be the subject of a treatment and not even be consulted on the matter, and
spoken about in the third person like you weren't even in the room? I
realize that many young children and all babies cannot effectively
communicate yet with words, but they certainly do see and hear you and
they understand more than most people realize.
Believe it or not, the
child will respond better to any treatment if there is a preceding
communication between you and that child. Why? If you explain to the child
what you are doing in clear, simple terms, he or she will have a better
understanding of the result you are trying to achieve and be more relaxed.
If you ignore the child, he or she, no matter how young, will not be happy
about it. Would you try to adjust one of your adult patients who was not
happy?
If you are
uncomfortable treating a child, the reason is that you have probably failed
to properly communicate with that child.
I'm not saying this has
to be a long and involved dissertation. Just an acknowledgment of the
child's presence, and a short, simple explanation of what you are going to
do is really more effective than you might imagine.
Here are some ideas to
help you treat more children in your practice:
*** Hold "Family Days"
and "Kids Days." These encourage existing patients to bring their children
in for free spinal screenings.
*** Play videos in
your waiting area specifically relating to the benefits of chiropractic for
children.
*** Conduct ADD/ADHD
Workshops. We offer a slide presentation at my office called "A Drug‑Free
Approach to Treating Attention Deficit Disorder and Hyperactivity." Whether
you use this tool or not, I encourage you to get out into your community to
make you services known in this critical area of our children's health.
Children are incredibly
sensitive, intuitive and aware. Don't be afraid to communicate to them
directly. They will understand a great deal. And remember, children are men
and women who have not yet reached maturity. Treat them as such and you will
reap the rewards of helping the children of your community with
chiropractic.
(Dr. David Singer is
the CEO of David Singer Enterprises ‑‑
www.davidsingerenterprises.com ‑‑ a company offering an honest and
ethical approach to building a practice through one‑on‑one consulting
programs, products and practice expansion seminars. Dr. Singer teaches
lectures on the natural solutions to health issues mentioned in this column,
among others. For information on workshops and how you can present these
programs to groups and organizations in your area, call Robert at
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