August 2007
Magic
by Dr. Ogi Ressel
One thing I've noticed
that's abundantly clear, is that many doctors are still looking for that
magic bullet, that amazing gizmo, that better mousetrap, that phenomenal
closing phrase, that magical procedure, which will somehow transform mere
mortal earthlings into model lifetime chiropractic patients who refer
everyone they meet, don't miss their appointments, pay on time, and sing
your praises! Wow!
And at the risk of
bursting THAT bubble, I have to tell you there is no such thing!
There is no magical wizardry, no magic powder, no amazing phrases, and no
voodoo to create your dream practice.
Now that you're
disappointed, let me assure you there is a certain magic that will
help, and it comes from you... from your heart. It bubbles up from that
inner well that all of you have inside but rarely display.
It comes from caring,
from loving, from a warmth that you carry with you. It's written all over
your face. In fact, it's in the crevasses and dimples of your smile.
It's in your touch when
you hold hands with an elderly patient. It drips from your fingers as you
gently palpate a baby. It's in your thumbs as they gently wipe a tear from a
mother's eyes, and in your palms as you hold the face of a patient in your
hands. It's in your touch every time you gently caress a spine. And
it's in your laughter and antics as you have fun with your patients
day‑to‑day.
It isn't hidden in
orthotics. It doesn't live under the rehab machine, or inside the traction
unit.
You see, there is no
magic.
It's YOU.
Your patients love the
person you are. They love your commitment, your dedication, your passion and
your warmth.
And here's a concept,
all you need to do is be you! You need to be that wonderful and amazing
person who looks at you from
the mirror each
morning, that fabulous individual locked inside the doctor, that fun spirit
just waiting to be free ‑‑ if you let it.
You see, your patients
don't refer their friends and family to you because of the way you make
their sphincters fibrillate in excitement when you take their blood
pressure. Or make their muscles quiver when you use that pinwheel over their
arms. Or have their eyelashes flutter as you palpate their cervical spine.
No! They refer their friends and family because you are a wonderful, caring,
and amazing human being. Because you are the best!
So, think of ways of
making every patient visit a memorable
experience for them.
This is not about you. Ask your staff for their help.
Have a ball with the
children who see you. Have them see you as a total nut ‑‑ all at the risk of
being totally "unprofessional."
Dance with the older
ladies, hold hands with them. When I was in practice, all the ladies over 80
were my girlfriends. I would hold hands with every one of them, and love
them to bits.
Give out "Attitude
Adjustments" freely (butterscotch candies at the front desk for all those
who are not having a good day ‑‑ and watch their faces).
There are uncountable
ways of being an amazing human being to your patients ‑‑ not a doctor, a
human being. Your imagination is your limit!
For those of you who
are a bit challenged in the imagination dept, and are having difficulty
understanding what I am referring to, I invite you to watch the movie on
Patch Adams starring Robin Williams. Unfortunately, he was an MD. Too bad.
He would have made an amazing chiropractor!
The bottom line is, go
out there and have fun with your patients. This is your life. Please start
living it.
And forget the magic!
(Dr. Ogi Ressel,
author, researcher, and an x‑ray and pediatric specialist, teaches The
Practice Evolution Program, the "fastest‑growing coaching program on the
planet." Visit online at www.practiceevolution.com and take the Practice
Health Mini‑Checkup. Dr. Ressel may be contacted by e‑mail at drogi@practiceevolution.com
or by calling 800‑353‑3082. Interested in receiving his weekly THOTS "on
seeing tons of children and families in your practice?" Send him an e‑mail
and asked to be added to the list.)