September 2007
Are you playing the waiting game?
by Dr. Kevin Pallis and Dr. Ed Plentz
So often we encounter
DCs who are playing the waiting game. What is the waiting game? It's waiting
for your practice to improve. It's waiting for your practice members to "get
it." It's waiting for insurance laws to improve.
Instead of waiting, why
not take action?
If you learn one thing
from this month's column, make it the realization that you are responsible
for everything in your life. If you want something, go out and get
it, or ask for help from someone who can help you. Waiting is an excuse for
not taking action. When you wait for things to happen, your environment
controls you. When you act, you create the practice and the life of your
dreams.
There are three
categories of practices: survival, plateau or growth. Guess where the
waiting game is being played? That's right, in the survival and plateau
categories. When you are growing, you are not interested in playing the
waiting game. You make things happen rather than let things happen to
you.
What we have noticed
from coaching hundreds of DCs is that growth chiropractors are successful
wherever they choose to practice and live. In the other two groups we hear
of "lucky" towns, that is, towns where people don't want to be educated,
towns of poor insurance coverage and plant closings, etc. It seems as though
the DCs playing the waiting game are experts at the reasons they are not
growing. The growing chiropractors are experts in the reasons they are
growing.
Many people ask us the
human dynamics of the two groups. What makes DCs play the waiting game and
accept an "ok" practice, when they could have a fabulous practice if they
wanted it? It boils down to three factors: self‑image, love of chiropractic
(purpose) and communication skills.
Self‑image
The first factor,
self‑image, is what chiropractors accept as their ability level and
achievement level. Almost like a governor on an engine, it's what they
expect and accept in life. DCs with high self‑image are successful long
before becoming chiropractors. It seems they were successful at anything
they put their minds to. If you have a low self‑image, it will adversely
affect you in all areas of your life. It appears if there is a problem, it
will find a way into your life. It almost looks like you are pushing a
wheelbarrow of manure up a hill.
Life is always a
struggle. When good things happen, you brace for the inevitable rebound
effect. The good news is that self‑image is indeed re‑programmable. We have
so many DCs in our program who run into old classmates who almost don't
recognize them because their self‑image had changed... it's that dramatic!
Love of chiropractic
Most of us came out of
chiropractic college in fear, in debt, and in doubt. This is where
purpose comes in. If you have such a love of or belief in
chiropractic, people are naturally attracted to you. The fewer limitations
you see for yourself or for chiropractic creates an attractive web that
pulls all types of people into your practice.
Is chiropractic a way
for you to make a living or is it a way of life? Do you really believe that
healthier people do indeed create a better world? DCs who play the waiting
game have a lowered expectation of chiropractic. They see a limited scope of
perhaps musculoskeletal application only. Children and chiropractic? Never!
Why not? They are waiting for someone else to do the work of educating
people for them.
Communication skills
Now we come to
communication skills, the last contributor to the waiting game DC. When we
teach at chiropractic colleges the students are amazed when we inform them
that most of them have undeveloped communication skills. One of the main
culprits is the computer. Lots of time spent e‑mailing and Googling or on
MySpace will not help you an iota when you are face to face with your next
new practice member. Many chiropractors are afraid of public speaking and
meeting new people. They are ideal candidates to play the waiting game by
default.
Some people will
continue to drive around lost, when others ask for directions. The one
characteristic of DCs wanting to get off the waiting game merry‑go‑round is
the ability to ask for help. The choice is up to you.
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