August 2008
Becoming a 'doer' …
How to get proactive in your practice and life
by Dr. Timothy J. Gay
As we often do while
working, we think of things we should be doing to achieve what we
have deemed necessary for meeting our goals and expectations. Yet, in many
cases we erect invisible barriers to making those crucial decisions that
will allow us to move forward. Truth be told, we frequently wait until we've
made a mess of our practice or our lives.
Years ago, I learned a
saying I've used throughout life to move things along and get past barriers
that could keep me from doing what needs to be done to achieve my goals. The
simple saying is, "Small problems require small solutions and large problems
require large solutions." If this is true -- and by my own experience I know
it is -- why do we let small problems fester into large problems before we
look for the correct solutions? It's because sometimes the easiest thing to
do is the hardest.
Here are some steps you
can take that will bring you closer to "doing."
*** First,
recognize there's a problem. Whether it's a personal problem,
something that has happened out of your control, or a problem in the office,
seeing it as a problem that needs to be addressed now is the
necessary first step. Over-thinking and not doing anything about the problem
is common. Consider the icon of intellectual activity, Rodin's "The
Thinker." The beautiful bronze statue, sitting in Paris since 1902, has been
duplicated both as a symbol and a satire.
*** Learn to
communicate. Doctors with the highest communication skills seem to
have the most successful practice and the ability to convey a message that
people understand and are willing to embrace. Talking to concerned parties
and finding an early path will help deflect any escalation of the problem.
*** Catch the
problem early in the process. As a plant grows, it changes and
morphs into something larger and in some cases very different from what it
was originally. A lion cub at one point is small, unassuming and docile.
But, after the cub reaches a certain point, instincts, size and variables
change it to a 450-pound bundle of predatory carnivore. The old saying,
"There is an elephant in the kitchen that no one is talking about" rings
true. You don't want to permit the problem to continue to grow to
unmanageable size due to inaction.
*** Create the
strategy. Strategy is another way of saying get off the dime and
start looking at ways to make changes. Change is the chasm between fear and
the reality of doing. Fear is the overriding factor based on consequence of
inaction and the pain that may come from the decision. Yet, with the
inability to change, we sabotage ourselves. So, set and establish parameters
and goals with realistic timelines.
*** Implement in
increments. The reason behind fear is the anticipation of being
overwhelmed. Looking at the 3,000 foot vertical rock formation of El Capitan
and deciding to make the climb is a formative task that requires tremendous
planning and prior training in incremental steps. Breaking the problem down
into parts and putting action steps into place makes it easier to do. The
most effective way to put things into perspective and get things done is to
put them in writing. This will help you develop systems for implementing in
increments.
*** Just decide.
I have this sign in my personal office. Print one up and apply this simple
principle. (Early decision, like early detection, is better than waiting and
finding out it's too late and you had the opportunity to do something.) If
you wait to hear everyone else's opinion and input about your decision,
you'll find that most of them will lead you off of a proactive "do and
implement path" onto a "sit and just think about it path."
How many times have you
asked someone's opinion and at the end of the conversation you find that
you've moved away from your original thought and were taken completely off
track, moving you further from your initial goal?
*** Learn from
your mistakes. Caution is important. Calculated risk and some level
of organization and planning are important. But not ad nauseum. If you know
you need to do it, plan the action and do it.
Let's say you were
given an assignment by your coach or mentor for sure ways to increase your
practice. Your coach said that if you simply did what he or she asked of
you, followed his or her advice, made an immediate decision and
follow-through instead of procrastinating, that at the end of the year you
could earn an extra $200,000 would you do it? The answer lies within you. If
your answer is "yes," then you are considered a doer. And, if your answer is
"no," then as the story goes, the wait-and-see attitude produces nothing and
you will continue to look at the horizon of futility waiting for the sun to
rise.
If you want to be
proactive, a doer, make that choice right now. Get active in chiropractic --
and start doing. It is without a doubt more of what this
profession needs.
(Timothy J. Gay, DC,
a 1977 Palmer College graduate, is the founder and director of Ultimate
Practice [www.ultimatepractice.com] a chiropractic management and consulting
company specializing in personalized chiropractic consulting. A highly
respected and nationally recognized speaker, he is the author of several
books, as well as numerous CD and video products for the chiropractic
profession. Dr. Gay holds seminars around the country on a variety of topics
and may be reached by calling 1-866-797-8366, or via e-mail at
ultimatepractice@ultimatepractice.com.)